Decide

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Sikkema

Every time I come home and walk through my door, my pitbull-mix dog Opal runs to greet me. She has done this every time I’ve walked in the door since I adopted her on February 16, 2013.  Every. single. time. She loves me, this is true, but she also does not tire of routine or sameness. She doesn’t get jaded or bummed out because she’s been missing me all day.

I walked into a bank today and the young man who greeted me was very enthusiastic about everything: greeting me, asking me if I needed help, guiding me to my appointment, and then going on to greet others. I later learned that he just started working at the bank. Do you remember being new at your job? I do. I loved everything about my day.  Nothing could get me down. Everything excited me.

Buddhists have a saying: “Happiness is a choice, not a result.” 

Sometimes our most important challenge is to keep life new and choose to not be jaded by things.

I started to lose my way when I learned that our school superintendent did something (it has not been revealed to the public) and will be fired and be paid out several hundreds of thousands of dollars. We just passed a tax hike for education. I’ve been pretty down about it, thinking that certainly, the next expenditure for education will not pass because of this.  I got angry thinking about all those tax dollars going to this one woman and not to the thousands of students in our district.  But I can’t worry about that. I need to choose to be happy because I have students in front of me now.

I am more productive when I’m happy than when I’m frustrated/disappointed/sad/angry.

 

What We Tell Girls

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Larm Rmah

He didn’t mean to be mean

He was just playing when he grabbed you too hard

He’s sorry and you should just move on

He’s not stalking you, that’s your imagination – you need to work out it, both of you

What did you do to make him do that?

What were you wearing?

Why were you alone with him?

He’s just a touchy-feely kind of guy

He does that to everybody

 

 

 

 

It’s How You do What You do

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Plush Design Studio

I asked my 12-year-old niece, “Who is your favorite teacher?”  Although math comes most easily to her, she didn’t hesitate to tell me her English teacher is her favorite instructor of all time, because “She is so enthusiastic about everything! She loves to act stories out.”

Here’s to enthusiasm!