If you want something different, do something different.
Take baby steps if you need to, but do it.
By the way, you’ll have to make a sacrifice or two. You’ll probably be a little uncomfortable. This is why most people don’t reach their goals: They don’t want discomfort and they don’t want to give anything up.
Will you stand out?
…it’s not working,
…or you’re just not happy,
then stop complaining/excusing/blaming –
stop what you’re doing –
and do something different.
Transformation is an inside job.